Getting over it.

I think all of us have have to get over someone, be it a crush who already is in a relationship or a lover… the question that troubles us is how to get over that someone..
What do our friends say when we tell them about this? “Usse phone ghuma, aur gaalli de photo jalake karde raakh saale…”, or things like I told you he/she wasn’t right, it doesn’t even matter, 36 aayege 36 jaayege, etc etc…

But do you think burning/deleting pictures would help you get over them? Do those words help? And since you are miserable right now trying to get over them, you definitely had a lot of feelings for them.. And feelings don’t die, neither do they fade… You just burry them deep down so you yourself don’t find them… You can delete those pictures but what about those memories your heart doesn’t want to let go? You can block their contact, can you block their thoughts and conversations that play in your head?

Calling them to speak shit about them and pointing out their flaws, can let you release anger but the Words that come out in anger can be so harsh that one day you will regret saying them to that one person whom you loved so much at some point of your life..

When someone close to you dies, do you start bitching about that person? Do you delete the pictures with them? no you dont.. Yes, you mourn, feel sad and hate that they left your side… You cry your heart out… You stay disturbed for somedays.. But with time you accept that they aren’t gonna come back and life has to go on… So, I think, to get over someone treating the relation the two of you shared as the death of a person is the trick.. it let’s you Cherish each moment spent together and accept that they can’t be with you in your life further but will always be a part of your life..

A withered but beautiful part.. So, when thoughts about them pop or your brain plays a moment spent with them you have teary eyes but with a happy smile..
Give yourself time, let it sink in and accept the reality without any grudges.. But with a feeling of gratitude that it happened and is over now.

Written by – Neutrino